Guide
What happens at a first hearing (FHDRA)?
What to expect at your First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment, and how to prepare.
Written by Nikkie Gilbert, McKenzie Friend and Independent Private IDVA · Updated October 2026
After a C100 application, the first hearing is usually the First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment, or FHDRA. It's normally short and focuses on where you and the other parent agree, where you don't, and what happens next.
Before the hearing: Cafcass checks
In England, Cafcass carries out safeguarding checks first. This usually means police and local authority checks, and a phone call with each parent. Cafcass then sends a safeguarding letter to the court, and you should get a copy before the hearing. Read it carefully, as the judge or magistrates will rely on it.
Who will be there?
- a judge or a bench of magistrates, with a legal adviser
- you and the other parent (and any solicitors or McKenzie Friends)
- often a Cafcass officer, either at court or available by phone
Children don't attend. Some hearings take place by video or phone; your court letter will say.
What happens on the day?
1. Arriving and waiting
Arrive early to allow time for security. If you're worried about seeing the other party, ask for a separate waiting area. You can request this in advance as a special measure.
2. Talking things through
The court looks at the safeguarding letter and asks each of you what you want. Speak calmly, keep to the facts and focus on the children.
3. Agreement, or next steps
If you agree, the court may make an order there and then. If not, it gives directions, such as asking you to write statements, ordering a Cafcass section 7 report, arranging a fact-finding hearing, or fixing the next hearing date.
4. Leaving court
Make a note of what was decided and any deadlines. A written order will follow.
How to prepare
- Re-read your application and the safeguarding letter
- Write down, in a few lines, what arrangement you're asking for and why it's best for your children
- Bring a pen, paper, copies of your documents and a diary for dates
- Think about what you could agree to, even if it's only a short-term arrangement
Some areas are trialling a newer approach to children's cases (sometimes called "Pathfinder" courts), which can work differently. Your court letter will explain what applies to you.
How we can help
We can help you prepare what you want to say, go through the safeguarding letter with you, and sit beside you at the hearing taking notes. See McKenzie Friend services and fees.
Common questions
How long does an FHDRA last?
It is usually short, often around an hour, though you may wait at court for longer.
Do I need to bring evidence to the first hearing?
Usually not. Statements and evidence are normally directed later, but bring copies of your application and the safeguarding letter.
What if the other parent does not turn up?
The court may go ahead without them, or adjourn to another date.
Please note: we provide non-legal support only and do not give legal advice. This page is general information, not advice about your case. Court procedures and fees change; always check the latest on GOV.UK (opens in a new tab).
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