Guide
Can a McKenzie Friend speak in court?
Usually not — but there's a lot a McKenzie Friend can do to help you speak for yourself.
Written by Nikkie Gilbert, McKenzie Friend and IDVA · Updated October 2026
The short answer: a McKenzie Friend does not normally speak for you in court. Only occasionally will a judge allow it, and that's entirely at the court's discretion. Their role is to help you present your own case with confidence.
What a McKenzie Friend can do
Under the judicial Practice Guidance on McKenzie Friends (Civil and Family Courts), a McKenzie Friend can:
- sit beside you and offer quiet moral support
- take notes during the hearing
- help you organise your papers and find documents
- quietly prompt you and help you keep track of the points you want to make
What a McKenzie Friend can't do
- act on your behalf or as your representative
- address the court or question witnesses — unless the judge specifically allows it
- sign or file documents for you
When might a judge let them speak?
Rarely, and only for a particular hearing. Judges consider it where there's a good reason — for example, if illness or communication difficulties make it very hard for you to speak for yourself. It's never guaranteed.
How to tell the court you're bringing a McKenzie Friend
There's no official form. It's best to let the court and the other party know in writing before the hearing, giving your McKenzie Friend's name and a short note about their background, and confirming they understand the role and confidentiality. If there wasn't time, you can ask the judge at the start of the hearing. We'll help you do this.
Why it still makes a difference
Many people tell us that simply having someone beside them — someone who understands the process and how it feels — makes it possible to say what they need to say. Nikkie has faced the family court herself, unrepresented, and knows how much that matters.
How we can help
We help you prepare what you want to say, organise your bundle and notes, and sit beside you on the day. See McKenzie Friend services and fees.
Common questions
Is a McKenzie Friend a lawyer?
No. A McKenzie Friend is not a solicitor or barrister and does not give legal advice or represent you.
Can the court refuse a McKenzie Friend?
It can, but courts usually allow one unless there is a good reason not to, such as concerns about confidentiality or behaviour.
Do I need permission to bring a McKenzie Friend?
You should tell the court in advance. The judge decides at the hearing.
Please note: we provide non-legal support only and do not give legal advice. This page is general information, not advice about your case. Court procedures and fees change; always check the latest on GOV.UK (opens in a new tab).
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